Thoughts from a Therapist

How to Navigate Motherhood Without Losing Yourself
Marissa Gray Marissa Gray

How to Navigate Motherhood Without Losing Yourself

As a therapist, a mom, and a therapist who works with a lot of moms, the idea of motherhood is significant in my life. I am struck by how complex the roles of mama/mommy/mom are, and how these roles can be impacted by pressure put upon us and/or that we put on ourselves. From a mental health perspective, we can see the toll this is taking on the emotional well-being of moms. This has to change.

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Self-Compassion: Am I Doing it Wrong?
Marissa Gray Marissa Gray

Self-Compassion: Am I Doing it Wrong?

Has anyone ever told you, “you’re being too hard on yourself,” or, “you shouldn’t feel guilty about that”? Or have you ever said to yourself, “I shouldn’t have said that,” or “If I only I didn’t worry so much”?

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Is It Okay to Want Your Therapist to Be Your Friend?
Marissa Gray Marissa Gray

Is It Okay to Want Your Therapist to Be Your Friend?

As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and also a client who has my own psychotherapist, I've often wondered how we think about what matters in a therapist-client relationship. Would you and your therapist be friends, if your relationship did not exist through therapy?

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